We went to a funeral this week for the matriarch of a
neighboring rural family. Although she
lived in the country, this woman had once been the county treasurer – and thus
the mix of attendees was slightly different than it might have been had she
spent all of her days on the ranch.
For some reason, I was paying attention on this occasion to
the apparel of the arrivals to the chapel.
Most of people were dressed neatly, yet only a few suits and ties. The ranchers, however, stood out. Each of them was wearing a new pair of blue
jeans and carrying a hat.
These cattlemen were all dressed in their best shirt, and
most had on a wool vest. They were, of
course, wearing clean boots as well.
There were a few who wore western cut sport coats – as were all the pallbearers.
I, myself, was dressed a little better than the common
cowboy. Rather than blue jeans I wore tan
Wranglers with a complementary brown wool vest.
My brown leather belt matched my brown sharkskin boots, as well as the
wallet I received for Christmas.
One fellow of particular interest to me was my neighbor
Jeff. He had been closing a gate behind
his tractor as we went by, a mile away from his headquarters. He was wearing his normal threadbare brown
duck outerwear, and I was surprised that he wouldn’t
be attending this funeral.
But he showed up only minutes behind us in all his town
finery. He had obviously been wearing new jeans and vest under his bib
overalls, and had removed one layer when his wife showed up with the
pickup. In fact, the tractor was still
sitting by the gate when we returned home.
As I said, the ranchers were all carrying their hats – and that
presented a bit of a problem. There were
several men that I didn’t immediately recognize bare-headed. Their hat is as much a part of them as their coat
– and when they take off the hat and reveal a bald head, it’s a bit of a
surprise.
I laugh and shake my head whenever I see faded, worn, and
ripped jeans around town. I have a few
pairs like that myself, but would never wear them in public – I save them for
days when I am working on equipment that will leave them dirty and greasy. These jeans of mine earned their wear and
tear honestly, but I change out of them and take a shower when I am finished
with an oily task. Those folks in town never
wear anything out, and I wonder what motivates them to pretend they do.
As with most country folk, my choice in clothing is
pragmatic rather than a fashion statement.
I wear most of my clothes a couple of years for “good” before they are
relegated to ‘work’.
It is the same concept as my chaffing at mowing the
lawn: If I’m going to water it and cut
it, I want to bale it and feed it to the cows.
Doing things just for appearances doesn’t make much sense to
me.